If I choose to take on a responsibility I am making a decision to do a particular something, which necessarily means that I will not have time to do something else. The feeling I have when I am presented with competing choice options is called existential anxiety. The feeling I have when I am confronted with the effect of my decision is called existential guilt. Every decision in life means that we are deciding to do one thing and not another because time and energy are finite. Doing everything is not possible.
But many of us are uneasy with the freedom we apply to make conscious choices that we believe are in our best interest. Sometimes we hedge our bets by attempting to leave one foot in each door of the choice options and we end not doing either action well. We have too much anxiety and guilt.
Other times we cop-out and blame others for the anxiety or guilt we feel. Blame partners come in handy that way. Blame allows us to avoid responsibility for our own decisions by playing the martyr.
Use your freedom wisely. Do the things you want to do and do them well.
Posted by Adolfo Norwood on May 28, 2010 at 5:56 pm
If only more people could read about this!
Posted by kevinkervick on May 28, 2010 at 7:33 pm
Thanks for reading.
Posted by Cherie Elliott on May 30, 2010 at 12:32 am
If only more than 63 people could hear about this.
Posted by Wilbur Brandt on June 1, 2010 at 6:02 am
You have done it once more. Incredible post!